A Year-And What a Year!

I was reading back through this blog today and decided I wanted to leave a post. As the Princess in this marriage I have only posted once. :) It was nice to read back through our journey and reflect on it and where we are now. It was also great to see the support from those of you who read about our lives. I often bug him to update because I not only like to read about his thoughts on particular things, but I like to read the comments he recieves. I gain ideas from commenters occassionally! :)

It has been just about a year since he asked me to be his Princess and I agreed. At first I wasn't exactly sure what that might mean. All I knew was that I love my husband and if anything could improve our already good marriage, I was willing to try it and make it a great marriage. I've never looked back.

I have to admit, I was never much of a dominant person. In the bedroom we tended to take turns being dominant or submissive, and I never gave it much thought. I knew he was submissive by nature, so when he asked me to do this with him, it didn't really surprise me. I was taken back a bit by the idea of the chastity belt, but found that I quickly grew to like it. I enjoy knowing that when I am not home, he is safely locked away and waiting for my return. I enjoy that I control what is now MY cock, and that denial makes sex so much better! I have been very surprised at my ability to slip into my dominant role, and it has surprised me how much I enjoy it. it's not just the pampering (although that is quite nice), I enjoy the control. I absolutely love it when he begs me for release-when he's so desperate for me.

This has done so much for our marriage, which has absolutely been the best part. We communicate better than we ever did before, and we are much happier. Our sex life-well it was good before, and now it's fantastic! We are exploring new things that we are finding to be quite enjoyable. I think back to before he asked me to do this with him and I think-what if I had said no? I'm so glad every day that I didn't, because I had no idea what the benefits would be!

Anyway, I can see that I'm rambling, so I'll wrap it up. Please continue to read about our little lives and leave your comments-they are appreciated.

My sexy boy-I love you so much! There is so much more in store for you in the coming years as I continue to embrace this role-I guarantee it just gets better from here!

2 comments:

Her knight said...

i love stories like this! Thank You for posting this inspiring viewpoint. i'm very happy for you both, and look forward to reading about Y/your marriage for years to come.

hersforever said...

Her Knight,

Thank you for your encouragement, and thank you for the ideas you and your Princess have given to my Princess! I'm excited to see where your relationship takes both of you as well!